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Sunday, July 16, 2006,4:01 AM

this will be a long post~

well. this week is a pretty busy week. last week i was too tired to blog. so let me start with last sunday church day.

last sunday we haf Dr Robb Thompson there to preach. i learnt a lot of things. besides that something miraculous happened. actually i was thirsty. den i put $1.60 to buy a bottle of coke from the vending machine. but the 1st bottle was stucked and i got a refund. den i try another time. den the 2nd bottle stuck and i got my refund again. well yimin sean john cheryl and my sister was waiting for miie den. so tried my last time. and this time all the 3 bottles came down. haha. i spent $1.60 and bought 3 bottles of coke in expo. praise the lord. perhaps he noes that if he give us one bottle i cant share and even if i share it wun be enuf. and maybe he noes that if he give us one each we might not be able to finish and result in a wastage. so he gives miie 3 bottles. so there could be 2 to a bottle. haha.

last sun i learnt that god has a great future for everyone. yes. i believe that. we all knows that we human beings haf eq and iq it is only the matter of whether it's high or low. but we still haf another thing. that is the RQ ----- relationship quotient. well this is very very important. as ppl without rq we haf two results: 1. we will be very lonely when we get old.
==> we will yearn that someone to be there for you.
2. we will be a very self-centred person.
we'll be away from what god want us to be.

Dr Robb Thompson also shared that " It is the height of deception and arrogance to believe that we determine the outcome of our lives. While in truth, they are determined by those to whom we grant access. grant access means that what you done, you allow some other voice to go inside you. he said that devil will always plan ways to seperate you and jesus. so we muist listen to the correct voice. as the third voice would keep us away from god's will. and this "third" voice is everywhere. we must make right decisions though it might bring painor hardship now, but it will bring us a blissful future. i also learnt that the good does not influence the bad but the but does influence the good. so we must be firm.

Dr Robb Thompson gave us 5 main rq factors to learn.
1. every relationship has rules both to enter and remain.
- it is very true. cos most of the time we tend to take things for granted. every relationship has it's own way of beginning and also it's way of maintaining. we must haf the right attitude.

2. " i love you so much that i'd would rather you dislike me for telling you the truth than for you to love me for telling you lies.
- i totally agree with this. i haf always believe that telling someone or others tell miie about my negative points so that i can improve than the hide the "truth". this is what true friends are for. thanks tsali and yanbing and joan and many others! tzexin thanks for all you encouragements too!

3. our future is completely dependent upon the quality if the people you call "friends".
- when we walk with the wise, we'll wise but when we walk with the "fools", we'll be destroyed. in chinese also haf a saying: "近墨者黑，近朱者赤". so evil is a persuasion and being good is a choice.

4. the value you place on any relationship is immediately revealed by the price you are willing to pay for it.
- so when we treasure it the relationship will be good. if we dun, the realationship will be bad. it depends on what we "trade" for.

5. your seed is the only influence you have over your future.
- whatever we had now in our hands would influence our future and we need to "plant' it well. it creates our future.

one who knows how to handle rq is one who noes how to master life and can manage ppl. tsali you are a good one. our future is not determined by those who "likes" you but by those who dun. we can always learn for our mistakes as no one is perfect. =DD

this week really alot of things happened. something really unpleasant happened btw miie and another fren. i demoted him le. cos i think he is abit too selfish. i will not hate him for what he had done. i just dun like it. but i told him le. hope that he could change for the better. but the sad story is when he made his confession. i shant further elaborate. CONGRATS RONALD FOR PASSING THRU THE INTERVIEW!!and your treat. xP

i really love yanbing tsali ronald and tzexin. they are really my best friends. they had guide miie along this week. thanks lord for giving me the strength and courage to move on this week. thank you. also now i had a change of seating arrangement. i m sitting at the corner. behind fel and beside zhixiang. i finally can sit near girls le. lols. but will surely miss jerald de. cant stretch den massage for him liao. he is also another good friend good brother i haf. i m so fortunate to haf all of my best friends. lucky miie. =D

i m a blessed gurl.